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18th September 2005
FUN FROM THE FIELD 8
The other day I turned up for a meeting at what
I thought was the scheduled time only to find that I was
the only one present. Not wrong times again surely, I asked
myself. You see there is a different time system in Ethiopia.
When we (the forengi) make a meeting for 10.30 am it
means 10.30 in the morning. In Ethiopian time 10.30 means
2.30 in the afternoon. I must have forgotten to say “your
time or my time”? So one has to be ever watchful.
To complicate matters further the Ethiopian Calendar
is totally different to the European calendar. Last weekend
we celebrated New Years Day. Yes last Sunday was equivalent
to our January the 1st and last Saturday was New Years
Eve. The celebrations however are somewhat similar to
ours. On New Years Eve there was a dinner at the home
of one of former Ethiopian Colleagues with old friends
then off to a night spot for singing and dancing. I spent
Sunday at the home of one of my work colleagues who had ‘open
house’ - sharing of food, drinks and of course
a coffee ceremony. It was also the birthday of his seven
year old daughter. So birthday cake and singing of happy
birthday. A very pleasant relaxing day.
Back to the calendar difference. When one gets a report
or whatever there is also the question of “what
year is this - your year or my year”? Ethiopia
boasts of having 13 months of sunshine. Not totally accurate
but certainly there is quite a lot of sun. We have not
had rain for a couple of days so the rains may have stopped
for this season. Some people are adamant that the rains
stop on September 1st. Not always but usually by about
mid-September. There is an optimistic air within the
general population as it has been a good year for the
farmer and everybody realizes the importance of farmers
getting good crops.
During this past week I was also part of another milestone
in the history of the disability movement here in Tigray
- the inaugural meeting of the Association of Women with
Disabilities.
Women with all types of disabilities came to Mekelle
from different areas of Tigray - the blind, the deaf,
in wheelchairs, on crutches, some with babies on their
backs, some in western style dress but most in the traditional
white kemish some sparkling white- others not
so white as it was apparent that many of the women were
among the poorest in society.
Tigrayan women generally are strong. They have to be
to exist. Tigrayan women with disabilities have to be
even stronger to survive. As in many countries women
with disabilities are often abused by their husbands
and other men. They are often divorced and are left to
look after the children. Many women do not marry as they
are not considered part of society. It is difficult to
earn an income and many are reduced to begging.
The meeting took all day. I was asked to share my experiences
of women with disabilities in other countries and also
of the work I was doing with women in Tigray many years
ago. Some of the ex women disabled combatants were among
the participants whom we knew at Wad Medani, in the Sudan,
some 18 years ago.
It was quite an amazing day as I think that nearly every
woman present expressed an opinion. After the By-Laws
were accepted, following extensive debates, the Association
became official.
Many of the women told their own stories and gave many
reasons why they should be organized.
- “When you are organized your voice
is heard”
- “There must be changes for women with
disabilities in the years ahead”
- “We must strive to make sure the Employment
Proclamation concerning people with disabilities is implemented”
- “We must struggle for our rights”
- “We must strive for equal opportunities”
I believe they will be a VOICE TO BE HEARD in the future.
Helen P
18th September 2005
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